Davy Jones' Locker

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Monday, July 03, 2006

I've Seen Fire and I've Seen Rain

That's a good song. A little before our time, but a good song none the less.

Well, how are we all, ladies and gentlemen? Good, I presume? Dandy. Dandy like candy.

I'm going to be as straightforward as I can on the topics at hand without damaging anyone too severely, so here goes nothin' folks...Hold on to your hats 'cause it's gonna' be a bumpy ride...

Of Fire

I'm all for friends wanting the best for their best friends, looking out for them, and telling them when they're obviously in the wrong, but there is a fine line between constructive criticism and spiteful comments. What right does he have to tell me that he thinks my being with her is stupid? What right does he have to tell me that she is a, and I quote straight from the horse's mouth, " waste of time"? What right do you have to tell me what my future holds and what right gives you that same knowledge? What right do you have to tell me that seeing us together makes you sick? You know what, you have every right. You're my best friend. It's your duty to stand up to your ideals and tell me when I'm in the wrong. To be self righteous about it.

And I have every right to tell you that you are wrong. I have every right to tell you that you can go wallow in self pity somewhere else and try and bring me down with you another day of the week because, right now, I have found someone, sometime, some life that makes me extraordinarily happy and you have NO right to take that away from me. I have every right to tell you that I would gladly jump in front of bullets, speeding trains, cars, large pointy objects, and anything else for you, but this changes things, pal. When you take it upon yourself to make me feel down about a relationship that make me happy, we got problems, kiddo. Real big ones.

I have every right to tell you that I don't care if "nothing good will come of it" or that "she is a waste of time". You know why? Because she's not. There is a small group of people that come into our lives and dictate who we are and who we will become and I think she is one of them. And so are you.

I have every right to tell you that I will see this through to the bitter end because it makes me happy. I have every intent on having the time of my life with her as well as proving you wrong.

I have every right to tell you to shove it.

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Well, I'm bloody glad I got THAT out of my system. Been bugging me for a few days now...ah. I'm pretty sure that I should end on something happy...Yes, yes indeed.

Of Rain


When a harsh rain begins to pound on your windowsill and the thunder crackles and rumbles your house, what do you do?

You lay on your bed, smile, and LAUGH HYSTERICALLY!!! That's pretty much what I did. The world has a tendency to attempt to throw you a lot of curve balls at the same time, especially if you suck at baseball. You just have to smile, take them in stride and look at all the wonderful things you have to give and take and share. We all have to remember three simple things...

1) All wounds heal in time. The scar is still there, but the pain is gone.

2) Laughter is the best medicine. No need to expound upon that

3) Love. Yeah, just one word. Interpret it how you will. *winks*

You need to know what I mean? Watch the movie Love Actually. I know, it sounds like a chick flick, but I promise you. You'll realize just what I mean. About everything. :)

*looks at his pocket watch* Well it's about time I got going. You all stay dry and remember, dance like no one is watching.

*Tips his hat and wanders off humming an all too familiar tune.*

My funny valentine...

~Vinnie

7 Comments:

  • At 9:56 AM, Blogger Cellar door said…

    Good. you said what needed to be said,and in my opinion, not a bit more (or less). But if you ask me...this whole thing is a little bit childish, not necessarily on your part though. Hopefully it will pass...it would really be a shame if it didn't.

     
  • At 10:52 AM, Blogger Cap'n Vincent said…

    I completely and totally agreey, cavya. The whole thing is absolutely ridiuclous. I really tried not to let it bother me, honest, but it just really started to bug me after a while. I really hope it's over and done with soon enough. It really would be a shame.

     
  • At 11:27 AM, Blogger Cellar door said…

    Of course it's going to bother you, he's your best friend. It should bother you... but don't let someone else's stop you from doing what makes you happy.

     
  • At 11:33 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    That was the most honest, eloquent, and straightforward thing i have ever seen you write Nick. You know why,and i know why.
    I am happy for you, and the lovely lady of your choice, and i am proud that you have the courage and the strength to stand up for what means the most to you. Friendship is not used to guilty people or make them miserable. That happened and you are handling it admirably.

    And hey guess what.
    Nick and ***** sittin in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g...

    ;)

    Good job.

     
  • At 11:48 AM, Blogger Cap'n Vincent said…

    Emily i certainly have no idea what on earth I am going to do with you...one minute i want to thank you for all hat you've taught me and the next I need to wag my finger around at you and yell "Why I oughta'!"...thanks Em. 'preciate it.

    I didn't sleep all last night...it felt like Chrsitmas...i think it WAS Christmas...for that split second.. :)

    Nick

     
  • At 1:28 PM, Blogger Anthony Kayer said…

    Listen I know almost what your going through....i was on the other side once...and its possible that your friend sees something you dont...a/o is thinking more clearly because they are not "blinded by the light" so to speak...they just have in mind wut they think is right for you...and i understand you dont think they have the right...but as your best friend...they have the right to look out for you...and thats all theyre doing...and because theyre your best friend theyve seen whats gone on in your life in the past years...so......i also know where yourr coming from as well....im also having "friend issues" at the moment...MY "best friend"....

     
  • At 8:42 PM, Blogger Anthony Kayer said…

    See...*in response to Lancehead's comment at 10:16*...your best interests....all will be well...

    Peace my child /_\

     

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